I'll be so real I don't get people who see anything remotely sub/bottom or even switch about Jonah. the most dom top character ever
i can see him bottoming (sometimes) as its not as related to power dynamics and more what feels good but he'd definitely still be in control. as much as the sub has control of the situation too they still *want* the illusion of submission and want to debase themselves/be debased. which i just. cant imagine jonah desiring in any way
also like, sub having more control implies good and safe kink practices and still requires Jonah to trust his partner to be good dom and to pay attention to his comfort. and who would that be. you have to invent ocs for that because none of the people around him fit the bill. /maybe/ Fanshawe when they were still young? but who in the 19th century is doing good and safe kink practice 😭
@kairos-polaris lmaooo yeah fr. jonelias are not doing good bdsm either. like i dont think theyre doing check ins and shit. in fact i dont think theyd even define their dynamic as bdsm at all. jon would just be like, yeah elias hits me sometimes but i like it..
@two-pupils exactly! and also like even if Jon was domming it would still be bad practice, because no way Jon wouldn't take advantage of the situation to compel Jonah. maybe pre s3 Jon? but that man is so sub... also Jonah has no reason to trust him anyway. people got mad at me for saying Jonah wouldn't trust his partner but like. it's not even a kink thing. vanilla thing also requires you to trust your partner to no overstep your boundaries. is it so wild to suggest that Jonah wouldn't trust people whose entire thing is causing trauma and suffering to others to be a good and attentive partner?
@kairos-polaris literally. the only people we see elias having a 'relationship' with is peter and maaybe gertrude (also rayner in the past?). he obviously doesnt trust either of them and keeps secrets and has a somewhat antagonistic relationship with them anyway. his 'friends' in the past he all betrayed and told them nothing of his transformation. the only person i can see as being the closest to him is smirke who, again, he betrayed. jonah has no friends, he trusts NO one.